I decided to delete my Facebook account. The mania had become too much. Facebook was sucking my life away – it was a time waster. The platform was a breeding ground for dissatisfaction and superficial relationships. I was exhausted by the “oversharing” of personal information and the wars waged by friends with differing political ideologies. I wanted to return to the quiet days of reading a book and listening to music. The voice of Facebook had to go. But, before I could hit the delete button on my social media life, God sent me a reminder. He reminded me that I am to be a light in a dark place. He reminded me through a Facebook private message. Someone I knew was hurting. This person had serious questions about life and faith. We exchanged several messages where I shared foundational truths from Scripture and offered hope and healing to a broken friend. Through this exchange, God opened my eyes to how Facebook could be my ministry. I could be a light in a dark place and share the Good News online. That day, I prayed and asked God to show me how to use Facebook to help advance the Gospel. Facebook would be my mission field. Some practical ways to make Facebook your mission field include: · Share a verse that you read during your quiet time as your daily status. · Post links to events in your community that support the Great Commission. · Share pictures from outreach efforts that your family engages in. · Start an online prayer group, Bible study, or book club using a private Facebook Group · Pray for a Facebook friend each day and send that person an encouraging message. · Support those who are hurting in your circle of influence with whatever resources God has placed as your disposal. This year, I am facilitating an online Bible study on Facebook. Many of the women in the group are strangers to me, but our hearts have been knit together as we dig into the Word each day. I was able to share my testimony with the group and explained that Jesus offers each of us salvation. I asked anyone who had questions about faith in Christ to send me a private message. One of the ladies in my group sent me a private message, and I had the privilege of sharing the Gospel with her. Today, I have a new sister in Christ. I am so glad I did not delete my Facebook account. If you'd like more ideas of how to use facebook to reach and influence the world for Christ, check out Laura and Angi's book, Reach; How to Use your Social Media Influence for the Glory of God. About LyliLyli Dunbar loves teaching. For 17 years, she mentored teenagers in the Christian school setting, and now she has serves as Associate Director of Curriculum at Trinity International University Florida. Lyli married her Prince Charming in her 40’s and has a heart for encouraging young couples and singles in God’s waiting room. She enjoys road trips with her husband, connecting with women through Bible study, and reading way too many books. Lyli writes about life lessons and faith on herpersonal blog. You may also connect with her on Facebook,Twitter, and Pinterest. Want to read more from this contributor? Put her name in the search box at the top.
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1/3/2014 01:39:08 am
Thanks, Candace! I need to be more faithful about praying for friends who I see are hurting on Facebook. That's a goal for me for this year.
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1/3/2014 01:40:42 am
I am a bit of a social butterfly, so I really need to give myself boundaries -- I am also considering just fasting from Facebook a few times a month or a day or maybe a weekend.
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I actually love Facebook, not only because I keep in touch with many friends abroad because I can be so blatantly evangelistic! I paint bible verses everyday and post it, sometimes with my meditation, or request for prayer, or a copy from a sermon or something. Sometimes my friends share it. Most of the time I get thank yous for sharing the Word. The best is when someone says they needed that exact word. So I wouldn't delete my FB account unless God told me to. Right now I reach a lot of people without even saying anything verbally.
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1/3/2014 01:41:39 am
Patsy, I love how you use your artistry for Him. :)
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I too was going to leave Facebook but also received an encouraging message that God used me to encourage them so I too have seen it as a tool for ministry. Posting scripture, edifying books etc. instead of things about ME. That's what our mission newsletter can be for.
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1/3/2014 01:44:15 am
Debbie, may God continue to bless you as you serve on the field. It is great that we can stay in touch with our friends serving abroad through Facebook. I have a good friend who is a medical missionary in Albania, and I love hearing from her on Facebook. She is also participating in the online Bible study. :)
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1/2/2014 11:27:36 pm
I'm glad you kept your page Lyli. I find your words and posts very encouraging. 😊
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1/3/2014 01:45:44 am
Thanks, Micey! I am a big fan of yours as well. It's good to have like-minded sisters on Facebook. :)
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I'm so glad too! What a wonderful message, Lyli. I'm often hesitant to share much on my personal page about my faith and do more on my blog page but this really spoke to me today. I do find Facebook to be such a great way to engage with others and if I can use it to help lead others to Him... YAY!!
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1/6/2014 01:40:47 pm
I find that posting links to articles helps to start discussion. I don't know if this will work for you or not, Beth. Sometimes folks are more open to discussing spiritual things than I think they are.
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Carole
1/3/2014 06:03:27 am
Thank you so much for your post today! I have thought the same thing about FB. I had even told people that I was going to quit for exactly the same reasons you listed! But, I know the Lord is trying to grow me and here I still am. You are such a blessing! Please send me more info on the online Bible study; I would love to participate!
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1/8/2014 10:08:06 am
Carole, I am so excited that you are plugging into some online Bible study! :)
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1/8/2014 10:06:47 am
Looking at Facebook through the lens of the Great Commission has really helped to redeem the platform for me, Jeff. It's made my Facebook time more purposeful.
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1/3/2014 06:43:01 am
Thanks for sharing this, Lyli. I have a love/hate relationship with Facebook. I did go through and pare down my "friends" list considerably a few weeks ago. But I didn't want to shut it down altogether either because yes, it definitely can be a ministry if we'll allow the Lord to use it as such. You're an encouragement to do that!
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1/8/2014 10:04:08 am
You are exactly where I was, Lisa.... This new perspective has helped me a great deal -- it guides what I share on Facebook and how much time I spend engaging with folks there.
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1/4/2014 03:11:24 am
The Internet is one big mission field, I think. And you, dear Lyli, are a bright light. If we only touch one...
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1/8/2014 10:01:15 am
Thank you, sweet friend. During all the years I worked in youth ministry, I used to give myself that pep talk on really hard days -- if I only reach one, it's worth it.
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1/6/2014 01:38:58 pm
Praying for you tonight, Tracy. Whenever I feel "in a funk" spiritually, I try to get back to the basics. I water my spirit by getting into the Word -- I really love Psalms and Proverbs for days when I am dry.
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1/5/2014 10:02:41 am
I, read your post with interest, because I had been pondering the idea of backing off from FaceBook, and also from blogging. It had become work instead of just enjoyment. But I guess God reminded me that ministry IS work! Anyway, I'm hanging in there with God's help!
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1/6/2014 01:36:07 pm
That's an interesting perspective, Esther! Yes, there is a sense of duty about ministry. For me, I find that I need to work in times of rest and renewal, too. If I don't take time to unplug, then I have nothing to write about, and I lose my missional focus.
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Well, I *did* delete my account, and find I get over-immersed even in blogging alone if I don't watch out. It has sometimes occurred to me that maybe I could create a different FB account, solely as a writer's account. Still ambivalent. Good to read your input here. Thank you for it.
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1/6/2014 01:33:30 pm
Sylvia, I do have a Page for my blog (a writer's page), but I find that the greater ministry happens on my personal page.
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I appreciate this post. I felt the same way about my Facebook account. I deactivated my account for a couple months and just reactivated it the other day, just before reading this post, and started wondering if I would deactivate again. Reading this post made me think I might be able to juggle my personal page in a minimal way with good intention. We'll see. ;-) Thanks for sharing!
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1/6/2014 01:32:00 pm
Lisa, if I view my Facebook account through the lens of the Great Commission, then I stay focused, and it doesn't overwhelm me.
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1/8/2014 09:59:00 am
Agreed, Linda! May God give us discernment about how we spend our time for Him.
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