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Brag on God Friday

2/9/2012

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I'm so glad you are here! I hope during your visit you get a glimpse of God's heart for we become what we are gazing at. I pray that God refreshes you and gives you readiness to persevere in what He has for you today.  My desire is to be a blessing to you in helping you know God more and make Him known so I've made these Resources available to you and have the Missional Living blog tab for practical ideas of how to live on mission right where you are. 
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Don't you just love stories! Story helps me feel like I'm there, like I can understand and feel what the people might be going through. That's why I love Judges so much. Story after story of God intersecting lives. So, in bite size pieces I've been writing my way through Judges sharing glimpses of God's heart and character. To check out the entire series so far head on over the the Judges Devotional.  
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"The king of Ammon, however, paid no attention to the message Jephthah sent him. Then the Spirit of the LORD came upon Jephthah. He crossed Gilead and Manasseh, passed through Mizpah of Gilead, and from there he advanced against the Ammonites. And Jephthah made a vow to the LORD: "If you give the Ammonites into my hands, whatever comes out of the door of my house to meet me when I return in triumph from the Ammonites will be the LORD's, and I will sacrifice it as a burnt offering." 

Then Jephthah went over to fight the Ammonites, and the LORD gave them into his hands. He devastated twenty towns from Aroer to the vicinity of Minnith, as far as Abel Keramim. Thus Israel subdued Ammon. When Jephthah returned to his home in Mizpah, who should come out to meet him but his daughter, dancing to the sound of tambourines! She was an only child. Except for her he had neither son nor daughter. When he saw her, he tore his clothes and cried, "Oh! My daughter! You have made me miserable and wretched, because I have made a vow to the LORD that I cannot break." "My father," she replied, "you have given your word to the LORD. Do to me just as you promised, now that the LORD has avenged you of your enemies, the Ammonites. But grant me this one request," she said. "Give me two months to roam the hills and weep with my friends, because I will never marry." "You may go," he said. And he let her go for two months. She and the girls went into the hills and wept because she would never marry. After the two months, she returned to her father and he did to her as he had vowed. And she was a virgin. From this comes the Israelite custom that each year the young women of Israel go out for four days to commemorate the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite." Judges 11:28-40

Through Jephthah's Eyes:
"Jephthah's vow was really a bargain with the Lord: If God would give the Israelites victory over the Ammonites, Jephthah would sacrifice to the Lord whatever came out of his house when he arrived home in Mizpah." The Wiersbe Bible Commentary


So often we forget that it's not all about us. It is so easy to think our desires are all about us. Jephthah did. He forgot God was actually the One who gave him the desire in the first place. And because he forgot that God was already doing His thing, he bargained with God, thinking God needed more of an incentive to pull off a win. 

And just because this sure sounds like he offers his daughter as a human sacrifice, here's what The Wiersbe Bible Commentary says (which my other 3 say the same thing). "More than one expositor has pointed out that the little word "and?' in the phrase "and I will offer it up" (11:31) can be translated "or." (In the Hebrew, it's the letter waw which usually means "and."...) If we take this approach, then the vow was twofold: Whatever met him when he returned home would be dedicated to the Lord (if person) or sacrificed to the Lord (if an animal)... Nowhere in the text are we told that Jephthah actually killed his daugther, nor do we find anybody bewailing the girl's death. The emphasis in Judges 11:37-40 is the fact that she remained a virgin."


So basically, God is already working and we show up on the scene and start trying to control Him. God is in need of nothing and He desires us to tell us what to do not the other way around. 


Through the eyes of dancing daughter:
I just wish I knew her name. She wow's me. She comes out to meet her dad, dancing in victory for his great win. Austin and I (lots of you probably know) are missionaries to college students. I long for the day our kids rejoice with us in the victories of God winning over students hearts. How incredible it would be to see them physically get excited about something God did. So beautiful!

And then her dreams are crushed, her hope of ever getting married or having kids are robbed from her through a foolish, rash decision. I have to ask myself, "Would I be as quick to submit my "rights" because of the foolishness of another?" She is an example of a beautifully meek (strength under control) lady. Oh the beauty of bridled strength!


For us today:
* Remember that God is already working and when He let us be part of what He is doing, it's not so we can come in an do it our way.
* God uses awful situations to train us for the works He has prepared for us to His glory.
* It's honorable to value other people's word as much as our own and help them keep it.
* With our God-given authorities in life like marriage, we need to be willing to submit "rights" even to our own hurt. 
* We are desperate for the Lord's strength to live this life so we don't make rash, foolish decisions hurting those we love.
* Even in our failures, we can trust the Lord to not waste it.


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Will you join us in glorifying God?

Tell the nations about his glory. Tell all people about the wonderful things he has done." 1 Chron. 16:24

Each Friday, I love to give others and opportunity to ban together to show and tell how incredible God is. If you've written something that glorifies God (gives us a glimpse of His character-which could be a whole lot of things since everything good thing and every gift and ability is from Him) I would love to have you link it up below. (Just click the link and follow the prompts)  

I just humbly ask that you please let your readers know by including a link at the bottom of your post (or somewhere on your side bar) or put my button code (found on my side bar or the Brag on God Friday Tab) so they can find these other great people glorifying God and we can continue to grow as a community. Thanks! 

You are chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, people who belong to God. You were chosen to tell about the excellent qualities of God, who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light."2 Peter 2:9 
I'm linking up with Spiritual Sunday's 
18 Comments
peggy aplSEEDS link
2/9/2012 03:51:29 pm

very interesting study about Jephthah today. seems i don't remember this story and i was struck with how his daughter responded, encouraging her father to keep his promise even if it was difficult for her. thanks for sharing!
hugs,
<a href="http://peggyapl.blogspot.com/">peggy aplSEEDS</a>

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Laura link
2/10/2012 02:47:51 am

It's not a common one, that's for sure. But what an example she is for us. Thanks for linking up.

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Joe Pote link
2/9/2012 07:55:20 pm

I love what you said about Jephthah's daughter. What a young lady of faith and love!

Jephthah and Samson are two that always cause me to raise my eyebrows in wonder, when I see their names listed in the Hebrews 11 Hall of Faith. They are good reminders that God will use even our little faith and feeble efforts to work His purpose, then turn around and bestow us with the gift of being named as faithful servants.

What an amazing God!

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Laura link
2/10/2012 02:50:07 am

So true! It is so encouraging that faith doesn't equal perfection.

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Laurie Collett link
2/10/2012 12:30:02 am

What a wonderful, thought-provoking post! How presumptuous of us to bargain with God, as if He needed our help or as if He were not already doing His perfect will. Yet in subtle ways, we may do just that more often than we even realize. Praise God that His Word records these stories to edify us!
God bless,
Laurie

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Laura link
2/10/2012 03:12:53 am

So grateful God talks about mess ups in the Bible, helps me remember I'm not alone and cling to His grace.

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Ellen link
2/10/2012 01:19:41 am

Found your blog and linked up for the first time :)
When you get a chance stop by and say hi :)

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Laura link
2/10/2012 04:33:27 am

Thanks for stopping by Ellen. Looks like we both have a heart for adoption. :)

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Faye link
2/10/2012 06:03:24 am

Laura, I'm so glad you provided Wiersbe's background. I read this chapter about a month ago and struggled with the understanding of God accepting such a sacrifice and/or a bargaining with Jephthah. This helped make it so much more meaningful and worshipful. Oh to be like the daughter who is filled with praise to our God. Thanks!

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Laura link
2/11/2012 12:12:15 am

I love when God does that! How great He is at bringing understanding when we need it. :)

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Lisa notes... link
2/10/2012 10:08:09 am

So many beautiful lessons here. This story is always one that blows me away too. And I do love stories as well. I'm glad the Bible is so full of them.

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Rina Peru link
2/10/2012 11:04:33 am

Yes, Jephthah's vow was rash and it didn't really directly affect God's will and service to Him. I'm referring to Hannah's vow which she made just so God would give her her fervent desire. But her vow was for the service of the Lord that if He gave her a son, she would lend him to the Lord.

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Laura link
2/11/2012 12:15:29 am

I'be been thinking about that parallel a lot too (just started leading a couple bible studies through 1st Sam. using my study Beholding Him) and we just read about Hannah. So interesting!

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Hazel Moon link
2/10/2012 03:31:19 pm

Reading the Bible through again this year, and I am in Deut so far and haven't arrived in Judges yet.. This story is so sad, about the foolish vow that Jephthah made and kept. If I could change it, I would have a ram in the bushes like God did for Abraham. Not so, but I can imagine. Thank you for hosting your lovely site and allowing us all the participate.

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Laura link
2/11/2012 12:17:06 am

Thank you Hazel. I appreciate you linking up. :)

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Ed Ross link
2/11/2012 04:33:59 am

Hi Laura! This is Kathy from The Writer's Reverie commenting in to introduce my Valentine gift to my husband - the Blog he's been wanting he's calling The Sheep's Pen. We spent a lovely time since last evening creating it together and he will be posting weekly on Spiritual Sundays - and with you here at Beholding Glory - his devotional thoughts gleaned from his recent studies. He tells his story in this opening post. I hope to be back sharing more regularly once the school year is over. Bit a trial this year has been - but the Lord is bringing us into new vistas. Ed's blog will be a part of this NEW work. Bless you for hosting each week!
Joy!
Kathy - and Ed from The Sheep's Pen

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Laura link
2/11/2012 06:04:22 am

Thanks for the introducation. How fun to have created it together!! :)

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Charlotte link
2/12/2012 07:02:30 am

I like this ending to the story. I had always thought he killed her. Even if she didn't actually die, her life was certainly affected in a very big way. A good illustration of why we should not try to bargain with God.
Blessings,
Charlotte

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