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How to Set your Family's Heart Toward Eternity {#31Days of Missional Living-Day 10}

10/10/2013

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It’s a Saturday morning in the middle of July.  We are in a dorm in a small town in western Hungary, called Keszthely.  This town has become a little slice of Heaven for our family.  This is our fifth summer spent here, participating in an English Camp called ‘Speakout’.  Every summer high school students from all over Hungary come here to learn conversational English.  In the process, they experience the truth of the Gospel as it is lived out and spoken into their lives.

My husband and my first Speakout happened before kids.  This 5th one in 7 years saw our family grown to five.  Our oldest son just participated in his 4th such English Camp.  Our daughter experienced her 3rd and our baby his first unless you want to count last summer…when he was growing in my tummy.

Our growing family has paralleled our growing love for this English Camp.  All of the logistics are more complicated, but also more blessed.  There are more little people to think of and to care for but also more opportunity for these image-bearers to shine the light of Jesus.  Many young people are experiencing a loving Godly marriage and family for the first time as they witness our being a family during Speakout.

As our kids grow so does their understanding of the mission.  This past summer, our almost 6 year-old’s favorite time of the week was each Saturday.  He woke up excited to pull the campers’ suitcases as he greeted them on their way into the dorm.  Later that evening, his eyes danced with delight as he gave high-fives to those same young people during their welcome party.

Our life, on mission, as a family has often been a logistical nightmare for me.  I have lost too much sleep packing bags just to 50 pounds only to lose another night’s sleep on an overseas flight.  With each choice to pack up and go when it is easier to stay, well-meaning people have dismissed what we are doing with ‘well it’s good to have an adventure while you are still young!’

But this is a very short-sighted view of the story.  As I have lost sleep, I have gained spiritual strength.  I have learned to rely on the Lord more during packing, sleepless flights or car trips than all of my other ministry experience combined.  And in the process we invite our kids into the adventure that is never supposed to end as we embrace God’s call on our lives.

So often, we miss out as families because we are not willing to take the first step.  Or we are too busy to find room in our over-crowded lives.  In the end, we settle for less than God’s best as a family. 

My most heartfelt advice for you mama, who desires to live missionally is

1)  If the Lord is speaking to your heart, or someone in your family’s heart, about an opportunity, DON’T SAY NO because it is impossible to picture the logistics.

2)  Give the opportunity to the Lord. Pray about it. And trust Him to bring it to pass if it is His will. Psalm 37:5

3)  When you do step out as a family, realize that it is as a family.  Your kids are as much if not more missionaries than you. Encourage them with the vision. Praise God as you see Him do ‘exceeding immeasurably beyond all you can ask for or imagine’ in and through their lives.

4)  Take time to reflect upon and affirm God’s mission for your family. Then hold each other accountable to seek further opportunities as a family.

Our world needs the love that your family uniquely has to offer.  Our world is desperate for the Savior in your midst.  My prayer is that you are challenged, encouraged & inspired to set the heart of your family upon eternity and that you will get to see, taste and touch it together.    


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Abby is a small-town loving, big city adventurer.  She and her husband have worked with high school students most of their lives!  Since their internship in Budapest, Hungary in 2005-2006, they have been working with the ministry of CRU.  In May of this year, they moved to Hungary answering God's call to work long-term with the students of Central and Eastern Europe.  Abby loves to laugh, especially at herself, has a passion for God and making Him known and is ever learning how to do that with three small children, ages 5, 3 and one month.  She wouldn't trade the journey for anything!  She blogs regularly at Fan the Flame   

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Gertrude link
10/11/2013 02:08:49 am

Hi Abby, thanks for this encouraging post.We just had our first-born and sometimes even going to the store with him to pick up a few things can be tiring. So I can't imagine what the logistics of being missional with your THREE kids would be like ! Hahaha. Well we thank God for His strength and grace and I will remember this when we have to travel with him and our other future kids on ministry trips. Thanks again and have a blessed day !

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Abby link
10/16/2013 06:50:56 pm

Gertrude, I absolutely agree about 'just getting to the store' and sometimes, these days, I am just keeping them alive:} I rest with you in His abundant ever-sufficient grace in our weakness, in our each and every moment. Blessings:}

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Dayle link
10/12/2013 05:28:29 am

Thanks for sharing this wonderful insight into your life. I love what you're doing.

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Kaye Swain link
10/12/2013 07:38:20 am

What a sweet encouragement you've given me today and a wonderful reminder! God has me on a long-term mission at home with Sandwich Generation caregiving. The logistical struggles are quite different from yours, I know, but exist nonetheless. It's easy to get tired and think of taking the easy way out and quit. But He keeps reminding me to keep my eyes on Him instead of the trials and keep on keeping on. Thanks for being used by Him there AND here. :) And blessings to you as you minister within a wonderful ministry that I've long been blessed by! :)

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Abby link
10/16/2013 06:52:52 pm

I could have written this same comment, Kaye! It is so good to know we are in this together...yes! keep on keeping on!!!

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Michelle Anderson link
10/12/2013 08:20:48 am

Blessings to you and your family for answering the call. It's challenging on my own. I can't imagine how much more so if I had done it when my boys were little.

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Rosilind Jukic link
10/13/2013 01:31:48 am

What great advice!! I love point 3 about our children being as much or greater missionaries than we are. So true!

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Courtney link
10/15/2013 11:26:02 pm

Hi Abby! I'm so glad we were next to each other at SDG today and I got to come visit. It is great to catch up on your family, and I really appreciate your advice about don't let the logistics stop you. Such wisdom! Logistics are a worldly barrier, totally doable for God. I often forget that. Thank you :)

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Abby link
10/16/2013 06:57:16 pm

I agree about logistics, worldly and our flesh...it is the nitty gritty of being refined and living His strength for His Glory. All because of Him, All for Him, Abby

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Cherry link
10/17/2013 12:15:39 am

Abby, so fun to find you here! And such good words of wisdom from a mom who is in the midst of life overseas, serving together as a family. Thinking of you, and sending prayers for you ...

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